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#10095 Wings Over The Mountains of Life
Prospering and Affair Proof
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Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr. says men and women almost
universally have five primary needs that must be met to assure a
prospering, affair-proof marriage. Those needs are:
Men
1. Sexual fulfillment
2. Recreational companionship
3. An attractive spouse
4. Domestic support
5. Admiration
Women
1. Affection
2. Conversation
3. Honesty and openness
4. Financial support
5. Family commitment
Instead of worrying so much about whether or if your spouse has
had or will have an affair, do something to help reduce the
chances of it happening.
Men, look at the five greatest needs of your wife and ask
yourself, "How am I doing at affair-proofing my marriage and
fulfilling those five primary needs of my wife?"
Women, look at the top five greatest needs of your husband and
ask yourself, "How am I doing at affair-proofing my marriage
and fulfilling those five primary needs of my husband?"
Sure, God fills all needs but that's why He gave Adam Eve and
Eve Adam. It's when they didn't fulfill the purpose that they
were meant for that there was trouble in paradise.
Take time to be honest with yourself and not argue with or
rationalize the needs, the needs are real.
How are you doing with those five?
~A MountainWings Original~
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