MountainWings - The Daily Inspirational E-Mail #1101
Helping You Over The Mountains of Life

Once upon a time...................

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. 

He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her 
to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best. 

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always 
wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great 
fear that she might run away with some other men. 

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and 
in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some 
problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out 
and tide him through difficult times. 

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great 
contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the 
household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she 
loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her. 

One day, the merchant fell ill. 

Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious 
life and told himself, 
"Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!" 

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest 
clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow 
me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away 
without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's 

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my 
life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" 
replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you 
die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold. 

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help & you've always 
helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and 
keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd 
wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came 
like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated. 

Then a voice called out: 
"I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." 
The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. 

She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, 
the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!" 

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives . . .

The 4th wife is our body. 
No matter how much time & effort we lavish in making it look good, 
it'll leave us when we die.

Our 3rd wife? 
Our possessions, status and wealth.
When we die, they all go to others.

The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there 
for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

The 1st wife is in fact our Spirit, often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth 
and sensual pleasure. 

Guess what?

It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go.

Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait 
until we're on our deathbed to lament the neglect . . .

Today is a good day to start courting the real first lady.

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